I went through all my notes in iCloud yesterday and BOY do I write a lot to myself🥲
You know what I realize after reading everything (8 years worth of rants)?
If I felt hesitant to speak about my own feelings to the person I’m dating and instead turn to my private place to vent… its the incompatibility floating to the surface finally. If you’re scared to speak to your SO about something, or you are worried how they’ll react to you expressing YOUR feelings… it’s the beginning of the end.
It’s honestly without fail the biggest predictor of a breakup coming your way because none of us can stay with someone we can’t freely express ourselves with, and none of us should. Try and fix it if you can, if not, get yourself outta there.
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