“If you need a lot of space, you struggle with authenticity.”

This is something I came across a while ago. I’m not sure the extent I agree with it. But it does shed some light on why I feel so much more at ease with some friends than others. And I feel like I need to recharge if I were “socializing”.

I do think no matter how “fully authentic” you feel you are. Being around people isn’t always good for clearing your head and figuring stuff out. So having some alone time is crucial for a clear mind.

But I never needed space away from my pets, or my plants. These are living things. It’s coz they lack the capacity to socialize the way humans do. So I don’t feel the need to be anything but my true self.

Humans are born to yearn for connections and bond with others. If you primarily want to be alone, maybe it’s time to consider surrounding yourself with people that make you feel completely okay to be your true self.