Setting boundaries

As a recovering people pleaser, I often mistook love as unlimited giving. It was the only way I knew how to show love.

I’m learning that having healthy boundaries doesn’t mean I’m disappointing people. I’m also learning that disappointing people is okay and the right people won’t stop loving you just because you have standards and proper boundaries.

Mostly I’m learning how to say no to things that eventually negatively affect how aligned I am with myself. Because you’re the one who has to live with yourself for the rest of your life and having that peace is the most important thing.