We are too occupied by how much we like/love someone that we forget our own needs matter too.
Here’s your reminder that when someone is signaling they don’t have capacity for you, it’s not a reason to lose your capacity to take...
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Real thinking requires not only intelligence but courage to face the monster that is inside your own head.
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Feb 8, 2023
This is your daily reminder
Living in your own truth is our only mission in life. It’s also the only way we get to have the right people in our lives.
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Feb 8, 2023
The advice I gave to a viewer after she was broken up with.
Never believe, no matter how much someone says they love you, values your time like you value your own time. As much as we’d like to...
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Feb 8, 2023
Not sure who needs to hear this today.
Just because the holidays are over, doesn't mean you have the energy to switch back to hustle mode. If you feel lack of motivation for...
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Feb 8, 2023
Do you have an intentionality for 2023? What is it?
For me, 2022’s intentionality was stop judging myself constantly. 2023’s intentionality is freedom awareness. Always remind myself how I...
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Feb 7, 2023
2022 Recap
Not that much happened on the outside for me this year and so much happened on the inside. For the first time, I’m not dreading for the...
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Feb 7, 2023
Communicate better
I went through all my notes in iCloud yesterday and BOY do I write a lot to myself🥲 You know what I realize after reading everything (8...
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Nov 20, 2022
Examining yourself
The more time you spend examining yourself, the more imperfections you notice. But the more time you spend appreciating yourself, the...
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Nov 12, 2022
Idk who needs to hear this…
You’re not useless if you didn’t get anything done today Productivity is a terrible coping mechanism. It’s also a terrible measure for...
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Oct 24, 2022
People who hurt you
Sometimes we have to take the lack of closure as closure. We don’t need the person who hurt us to validate how much they’ve hurt us. No...
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Oct 24, 2022
Moving onto better things
Sometimes, when you’re at the precipice of manifesting the life you want, life tends to go to complete and utter shit. And that’s the...
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Oct 24, 2022
Few mental notes to myself and maybe it helps you guys.
1. My brain feels like jam when I attempt to write 🥲 2. I’ve become better at just shrugging it off saying I’ve done my part. 3. I let...
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Oct 8, 2022
Your traumas may not be your fault but healing the wounds is definitely your responsibility.
If you leave the wounds unattended, you will bleed on the people that didn’t cut you. Two days in a roll speaking counterintuitively...
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Oct 8, 2022
It’s impossible for you to grow if you put yourself in the center of everything.
I preach self-love and self-care on a daily basis. While that’s a very valuable and important journey for all of us, it’s crucial to...
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Oct 8, 2022
“If you need a lot of space, you struggle with authenticity.”
This is something I came across a while ago. I’m not sure the extent I agree with it. But it does shed some light on why I feel so much...
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Oct 8, 2022
Only do things you’re willing to do regardless of outcome
Maybe because you feel joy when you do it, or maybe it’s as simple as, it’s the right thing to do for you. That’s how you live a life...
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Oct 8, 2022
If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain.
Just like the clouds that carry rain adding color to the sunset sky, staying strong throughout challenges and obstacles surely will add...
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Oct 8, 2022
Is there something about you that get misunderstood often?
Being misunderstood is a violating feeling for me and I don’t know why. Obviously it’s normal to care about loved ones’ opinion of you....
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Oct 8, 2022
Projecting confidence isn't hard, but deep acceptance of yourself at your worst is no easy task.
It's a catch 22. If you fully accept yourself, how you seem to the outside world, albeit superior or inferior, wouldn't really matter to...
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Oct 8, 2022
How can you prioritize yourself better? Teach me some of your mechanism so I can learn :3
Have you ever noticed that, as millennials, we are the most self-absorbed generation yet all at the same time deprioritizing ourselves...
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Oct 8, 2022
Don’t know who needs to hear this
Eventually everything you want will come to you, it’s up to you when you decide to believe good things will happen to you. The more I...
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Oct 8, 2022
You don't need to understand something for it to be valid.
I feel this on the cellular level. Being an open-minded and understanding person has been a part of my identity for very long. But the...
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Oct 8, 2022
Ask yourself, is this worth it if you don’t end up getting what you want?
If it’s not, then maybe reconsider making that sacrifice. Because no one can guarantee your hard work will pay off. It’s only if you...
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Oct 8, 2022
You are strong
Growing up our parents' generation taught us their own values. We are praised for our virtues and strengths and critiqued on our faults...
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Oct 8, 2022
Feeling feminine hits different.
I’ve denied myself femininity for years mostly coz I felt like being feminine felt counterproductive. This is the type of resistance that...
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Oct 8, 2022
Having needs doesn’t make you needy. You are only as needy as your unfulfilled need.
I was talking to my friends about their dating lives and it’s so horrifying to hear that people are so extremely wishy washy about what...
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Oct 8, 2022
Setting boundaries
As a recovering people pleaser, I often mistook love as unlimited giving. It was the only way I knew how to show love. I’m learning that...
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Oct 8, 2022
Stop saying I’m sorry and start saying thank you.
Being apologetic constantly, trying to occupy less space, and feeling like a nuisance aren’t necessary and not remotely endearing at all....
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Oct 8, 2022
About heartbreak
To love is to expand. To love is to take someone or something as a part of you. Sometimes we forget that we don’t lose anything when we...
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Oct 8, 2022
Your worth
The hardest thing is to truly believe that you are worthy of all the good things in the world, the good things you desire, and these...
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Oct 8, 2022
Have you ever noticed that people who know you the least have the most to say?
People with the least amount of context are the most opinionated about your choices and your life. They used to bother me so much but I’m...
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Oct 8, 2022
Positivity
Staying positive doesn’t mean being happy all the time. It just means even when you’re down in a ditch, you know better days are coming....
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Oct 8, 2022
Self-healing
Healing doesn’t mean you’ve gotten rid of the pain completely. It means you don’t react to old triggers with the same intensity and the...
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Oct 8, 2022
What kind of people you just can’t stand?
Although being a streamer seems like a job to express yourself constantly and it is that too. But ever since I started this journey, I’ve...
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Oct 8, 2022
Presenting ourselves
your job isn't you, your pictures aren't you, your thoughts aren't you, your habits aren't you, your mental struggles aren't you, your...
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Jul 1, 2022
Happy birthday to me~ 🥳
Though I still have a ton of insecurities, I’ve really started to notice the beauty of my body. :3 I know some people gatekeep...
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May 12, 2022
Choices you make become the sum of your life.
When you’re choosing to focus on what your faults, your flaws, and what you’re doing wrong, trust me on this. You’re gonna end up doing...
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Dec 2, 2018
Getting through your 20s, the peril of a #millennial.
I’m in my 20s. I’ve spent my 20s in crisis mode and it’s not an exaggeration. Anxiety, stress, depression, and just overall discontent....
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